A deadlock is the database doing its job
Error 1213 in the logs, and the chat lights up: the database is broken. It is not. Two transactions locked rows in opposite order, A waits for B, B waits for A, and InnoDB did the only sane thing: picked a victim and killed it. The cycle is gone. This is a feature. The classic shape is a money transfer. One request moves funds from account 1 to account 2, another from 2 to 1, both update the first account and then the second. Opposite order, instant cycle under load. Tests never show it, because tests do not run two of these in the same millisecond. ...